{"id":79155,"date":"2024-12-19T15:51:33","date_gmt":"2024-12-19T15:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tvbrazilusa.com\/2024\/12\/19\/perguntar-ou-nao-perguntar-esse-e-o-dilema\/"},"modified":"2024-12-19T16:23:32","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T16:23:32","slug":"perguntar-ou-nao-perguntar-esse-e-o-dilema","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tvbrazilusa.com\/pt\/2024\/12\/19\/perguntar-ou-nao-perguntar-esse-e-o-dilema\/","title":{"rendered":"Perguntar ou n\u00e3o perguntar: esse \u00e9 o dilema"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8864793242727901\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<header class=\"m-article-header m-article-header--standard\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span id=\"article-header-primary-term\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"a-term a-term--primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.boston.com\/tag\/community\/\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tComunidade\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"m-article-header__sub-headline\">\u201c\u00c9 dif\u00edcil pedir ajuda\u201d, disse uma m\u00e3e solteira, que escreveu ao Globe Santa em nome do seu filho de 12 anos.<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"a-photo m-article-header__photo\"><figcaption class=\"a-photo__caption\">\n<p>\tObras infantis expostas no escrit\u00f3rio do Globe Santa.<em> Josh Reynolds para o Boston Globe<\/em>\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/header>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.boston.com\/tag\/globe-santa\/\">Globo Papai Noel<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 estranho \u00e0 escolha, por vezes dolorosa, que as fam\u00edlias necessitadas enfrentam: aceitamos ajuda ou corremos o risco de desapontar aqueles que mais amamos?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTenho certeza de que voc\u00ea ouve muito isso, mas \u00e9 dif\u00edcil pedir ajuda\u201d, disse uma m\u00e3e solteira da costa sul de Boston, que escreveu ao Globe Santa em nome de seu filho de 12 anos.<\/p>\n<div class=\"m-block t-amp__list-container m-article-list-container m-article-list-container--frame-border a-border-frame  a-list-header__headline--red m-article-list--alternative--default  m-article-list--floated\">\n<ul class=\"t-amp__list a-list--no-style m-article-list m-article-list--recirculation m-article-list--has-images\">\n<li class=\"m-article-list__item m-article-list__item--featured\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"m-article-list__link-wrapper\" href=\"https:\/\/www.boston.com\/news\/community\/2024\/12\/18\/globe-santa-grief-steals-wonder\/?p1=article_recirc_inline_feature\" data-p1=\"article_recirc_inline_feature\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"432\" src=\"https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png\" class=\"t-amp__list-image m-article-list__image m-article-list__image--full\" alt=\"\" aria-hidden=\"true\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=200 200w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=300 300w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=400 400w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=500 500w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=600 600w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=700 700w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=800 800w, https:\/\/bdc2020.o0bc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Globe-Santa-Tease-658317b58e6c1-768x432.png?width=900 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\"\/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p><h4 class=\"m-article-list__headline t-amp__list-headline\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"m-article-list__link a-link a-link--inline a-link--text-link a-link--text-link-dark\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\tGlobo Papai Noel: Quando a dor rouba a maravilha das crian\u00e7as nas f\u00e9rias\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/h4>\n<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>Foram necess\u00e1rias uma s\u00e9rie de contratempos antes que ela estivesse pronta para estender a m\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDurante a Covid, fui despedida do meu emprego de 17 anos\u201d, escreveu ela. \u201cDesde ent\u00e3o, enviei dezenas de curr\u00edculos e aceitei dois empregos de baixa remunera\u00e7\u00e3o porque n\u00e3o tive outra escolha.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sua luta para encontrar trabalho \u00e9 uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o comum. Os dados do mercado de trabalho mostram que a economia est\u00e1 forte, mas se perguntarmos a algu\u00e9m que procura trabalho se \u00e9 f\u00e1cil encontrar um emprego a tempo inteiro com bons sal\u00e1rios e benef\u00edcios, a resposta geralmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 sim.<\/p>\n<p>O pai do menino luta contra o v\u00edcio e tem estado ausente de suas vidas.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMeu ex-marido n\u00e3o tem condi\u00e7\u00f5es de contribuir com pens\u00e3o aliment\u00edcia, ent\u00e3o sou s\u00f3 eu. Isso me mant\u00e9m acordada \u00e0 noite\u201d, explica ela.<\/p>\n<p>Na carta, ela falava com carinho do filho, a quem chamava de \u201c\u00f3timo garoto\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEle tem 12 anos e est\u00e1 na 7\u00aa s\u00e9rie. Ele joga futebol e adora andar de skate. E snowboard. Infelizmente, isso est\u00e1 em segundo plano por enquanto\u201d, escreveu ela.<\/p>\n<p>Um or\u00e7amento reduzido significa que seu filho ter\u00e1 que escolher entre hobbies, e o skate \u00e9 muito mais barato que o snowboard. O menino \u00e9 uma crian\u00e7a amorosa e solid\u00e1ria, madura para sua idade e f\u00e1cil de agradar, disse ela.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMesmo o menor presente faria a diferen\u00e7a\u201d, escreve ela. \u201cEssa gentileza \u00e9 um presente.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 a gentileza de estranhos que permite que o Globe Santa ajude dezenas de milhares de crian\u00e7as por ano durante as f\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n<p>As suas generosas doa\u00e7\u00f5es significam que as crian\u00e7as de fam\u00edlias em dificuldades receber\u00e3o novos livros, brinquedos e jogos, depois de um ano muito dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<p>Muitos dos amigos do Globe Santa s\u00e3o colaboradores de longa data. Eles doam porque se preocupam com os filhos, em mem\u00f3ria de um ente querido ou porque se beneficiaram do Globo Papai Noel quando eram crian\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea pode se juntar a eles visitando <a href=\"http:\/\/globesanta.org\/\" class=\"\">globosanta.org<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Christopher Tangney pode ser contatado em <a href=\"http:\/\/www.boston.com\/cdn-cgi\/l\/email-protection#e28196838c858c879bd0d0a28a8d968f838b8ecc818d8f\" class=\"\"><u><span class=\"__cf_email__\" data-cfemail=\"26455247484148435f1414664e49524b474f4a0845494b\">[email\u00a0protected]<\/span><\/u><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>H\u00e1 69 anos, o Globe Santa, um programa da Boston Globe Foundation, fornece presentes para crian\u00e7as carentes nas \u00e9pocas de f\u00e9rias. Por favor, considere doar por telefone, correio ou on-line em <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/globesanta.org\/\" class=\"\"><em>globosanta.org<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"m-block m-generic-cta\t m-generic-cta--post-content\t m-generic-cta--dark\t m-generic-cta--homepage\t m-generic-cta--email-signup\t\t m-generic-cta-block-style--default \tt-amp__generic-cta\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"m-generic-cta__wrap\">\n<div class=\"m-generic-cta__content\">\n<h3 class=\"m-generic-cta__title\">Boston.com hoje<\/h3>\n<p class=\"m-generic-cta__subtitle\">Inscreva-se para receber as \u00faltimas manchetes em sua caixa de entrada todas as manh\u00e3s.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p><script>\n\t\tvar consent=\"grant\";\n\t\t\/* The above code is parsing the JSON data from the local storage and storing it in a variable. *\/\n\t\t\t\t\tconst onetrustStorageConsent = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem( 'consent_one_trust_bdc' ) );\n\t\t\tif ( ( onetrustStorageConsent !== null ) ) {\n\t\t\t\t\/* Checking to see if the user has consented to the use of cookies.\n\t\t\t\t* If they have not, it is deleting the cookie.\n\t\t\t\t* This will comment for now, until further notice.\n\t\t\t\t*\/\n\t\t\t\t\/\/if ( onetrustStorageConsent.C0002 === false ) {\n\t\t\t\t\/\/\tdocument.cookie=\"_fbp=;expires=Thu, 01 Jan 2010 00:00:00 UTC; path=\/; domain=.boston.com\";\n\t\t\t\t\/\/}\n\t\t\t\t\/* Checking if the user has given consent for the cookie C0002.\n\t\t\t\t* If the user has given consent, the variable consent will be set to 'grant'.\n\t\t\t\t* If the user has not given consent,the variable consent will be set to 'revoke'.\n\t\t\t\t* Documentation https:\/\/developers.facebook.com\/docs\/meta-pixel\/implementation\/gdpr\n\t\t\t\t*\/\n\t\t\t\tif ( onetrustStorageConsent.C0002 !== true ) {\n\t\t\t\t\tconsent=\"revoke\";\n\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\t!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s)\n\t\t{if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\n\t\tn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};\n\t\tif(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;n.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';\n\t\tn.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\n\t\tt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];\n\t\ts.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window, document,'script',\n\t\t'https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n\t\tfbq('consent', consent);\n\t\tfbq('init', '989222871864976');\n\t\tfbq('track', 'PageView');\n\t<\/script><script type=\"module\">\n\t\tvar consent=\"grant\";\n\t\t\/* The above code is parsing the JSON data from the local storage and storing it in a variable. *\/\n\t\t\tconst onetrustStorageConsent = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem( 'consent_one_trust_bdc' ) );\n\t\t\t\/* Checking to see if the user has consented to the use of cookies.\n\t\t\t* If they have not, it is deleting the cookie.\n\t\t\t* This will comment for now, until further notice.\n\t\t\t*\/\n\t\t\t\/\/if ( onetrustStorageConsent.C0002 === false ) {\n\t\t\t\/\/\tdocument.cookie=\"_fbp=;expires=Thu, 01 Jan 2010 00:00:00 UTC; path=\/; domain=.boston.com\";\n\t\t\t\/\/}\n\t\t\t\/* Checking if the user has given consent for the cookie C0002.\n\t\t\t* If the user has given consent, the variable consent will be set to 'grant'.\n\t\t\t* If the user has not given consent,the variable consent will be set to 'revoke'.\n\t\t\t* Documentation https:\/\/developers.facebook.com\/docs\/meta-pixel\/implementation\/gdpr\n\t\t\t*\/\n\t\t\tif ( ( onetrustStorageConsent !== null ) && (onetrustStorageConsent.C0002 !== true ) ) {\n\t\t\t\tconsent=\"revoke\";\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\t!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function()\n\t\t{n.callMethod? n.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)}\n\t\t;if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;\n\t\tn.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\n\t\tt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,\n\t\tdocument,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n\t\tfbq('consent', consent);\n\t\tfbq('init', '813236348753005');\n\t\tfbq('track', \"PageView\");\n\t<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.boston.com\/news\/community\/2024\/12\/19\/globe-santa-its-hard-to-ask-for-help\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comunidade \u201c\u00c9 dif\u00edcil pedir ajuda\u201d, disse uma m\u00e3e solteira, que escreveu ao Globe Santa em nome do seu filho de 12 anos. 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